Nancy Scherl
DINING ALONE In the Company of Solitude
In my series \'DINING ALONE In the Company of Solitude\' I use peopled restaurant interiors as a metaphor for exploring the complexities of solitude and highlighting the experience of being alone in public. ( (The series is also my first monograph, published by Daylight Books, June 2022). The work spans over three decades, culminating during the Covid-19 Pandemic, reminding us all of the fragility of life while bringing our isolation into sharp focus. During the pandemic, restaurants were constructing outdoor dining areas to help patrons feel more comfortable from germs. Paradoxically, our isolation seemed to be exaggerated by these outdoor restaurants –private tents and bubbles, plastic walls and partitions as well as by people\'s reluctance to remove their masks until they ate. World-wide, we all seemed to also be connected by our vulnerability. Perhaps these timeless and timely photographs will serve as a reminder that we came to us terms with our aloneness. The work is deeply personal and was inspired by my mother who lost her husband, my father, when I was a senior in high school. I went off to college being extremely concerned about her since she was now alone. I witnessed my mother’s strength and noticed that her path was always forward. She forged new relationships, while carrying on with her old friendships and family traditions. When there was no one to join her, she had no problem ‘dining alone.’ When I graduated from college, I lived alone in Greenwich Village and was surrounded by many wonderful cafes, restaurants and coffeeshops. I decided to start this series in the 1980’s. Since I saw it as being timeless and universal, it allowed me to freelance, and to work on other projects without time constraints. Solitude is complex and includes solace and joy at one end of it’s spectrum, and loneliness and sadness at the other. Though the work is open to interpretation and viewers will likely project their own experiences to those they are observing, my point of view is that it takes courage to confront oneself and to be alone. I portrayed my subjects as such. If they aren\'t fully engaged by something, they are all independent, strong, and usually are looking upward, outward and forward.